Trauma Counselling Online

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Do you feel held back by something in your past, even if you can’t fully name it? Do certain memories, reactions, or patterns keep showing up no matter how hard you’ve tried to move forward? Do you wonder whether healing is actually possible for you?

Some people identify with the word trauma. Others come after a toxic relationship, a betrayal, or a hostile workplace. Or they carry the effects of ongoing, repeated, or childhood experiences.

And healing is possible. With the right conditions and support, the brain and body can recover. Many survivors sense this long before the research confirms it.

I offer trauma counselling online for adults across Western Canada, integrating IFS-informed parts work, somatic and Polyvagal-informed practices, EMDR, and anti-oppressive practices, adapted to what happened to you, your needs, and your pace.

Natalie Jovanic • Trauma Counsellor • Complex Trauma Coach • 15+ years’ experience • Integrative Trauma Recovery Model™ • Host, Trauma Demystified Podcast • Specialized training in parts work for relational and complex trauma, somatic healing, inner fragmentation, attachment and dissociation.

Not sure what type of trauma counselling fits?

It happened in adulthood

A toxic relationship, a betrayal, domestic violence or a toxic workplace,

Relational trauma counselling

It’s layered and ongoing

Symptoms show up across many areas of your life at once.

Complex trauma counselling

And if you’re not sure, that’s okay. You don’t need to sort it out before reaching out. We can figure it out together in a free consultation.

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Who I work with

I work primarily with adults navigating childhood trauma, relational trauma, and complex trauma. This includes people who grew up with abuse, neglect, addiction, or emotional unavailability, and those who carry the effects of systemic harm or chronic marginalization.

Some clients arrive with a clear sense of what they carry. Others come with only a suspicion: a feeling that something from their past is shaping their present, without words for it yet. Some have previous diagnoses like depression, anxiety, borderline personality disorder, or dissociative symptoms. Some worry their experience wasn’t bad enough.

I don’t diagnose. I work with what you bring, independent of the label.

You may notice

  • You’re not sure what you like, want, or need, apart from what you’ve always done to get by.
  • You feel numb and disconnected, and joy and happiness feel out of reach.
  • Painful memories and experiences keep coming back, even after years of trying to move on.
  • You swing between feeling everything and feeling nothing. Or you function well right up until emotions suddenly overwhelm you.
  • You hear a harsh inner voice, blame yourself constantly, or doubt that you can trust yourself.
  • Relationships feel hard: you lose yourself in them, or keep people at a distance.

Meet Natalie

Hi, I’m Natalie, a trauma counsellor and complex trauma coach with over 15 years of experience supporting adults healing from trauma, complex trauma, and childhood abuse. My approach, the Integrative Trauma Recovery Model™, is built on five principles: healing needs a healthy relationship, context matters, healing follows your pace, recovery isn’t a straight line, and recovery addresses the multidimensionality of trauma.

I believe healing should be safe, inclusive, and grounded in dignity. That means I actively work to honour the social and systemic contexts that shape people’s lives. I also offer flexible pricing to make trauma counselling more accessible.

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Natalie, a trauma focused practitioner offering relational trauma counselling online.

Trauma Counselling rooted in the Integrative Trauma Recovery Model™

Trauma counselling is not one-size-fits-all, and the approach I use reflects that. The Integrative Trauma Recovery Model™ brings together evidence-based modalities: IFS-informed parts work, somatic and Polyvagal-informed practices, EMDR, and trauma-informed relational practice. I adapt them to your nervous system, your history, and your pace. Rather than following a fixed protocol, I follow you.

Here are the five principles it’s built on:

Healing needs a healthy relationship. For many people who’ve experienced relational or childhood trauma, the relationship itself is part of what heals. I show up honestly, repair when I make a mistake, and work consciously with differences in power and privilege so our relationship doesn’t repeat how you’ve been wounded before.

Context matters. My approach integrates anti-oppressive practice. For many of my clients, systemic harm, discrimination, and intergenerational trauma are part of what they carry. I hold myself accountable to that.

Healing follows your pace. We build the process together. You’re welcome to bring fears, questions, and doubts. I’m transparent about my reasoning and open to being questioned. And I bring more than professional training: over 30 years of my own lived experience of trauma recovery.

Recovery isn’t a straight line. Setbacks aren’t failures. They usually mean parts are in conflict. Maybe you want to set a boundary and suddenly find yourself going into fawn. That’s not a step backwards. It shows us what needs attention next.

Recovery addresses the multidimensionality of trauma. Trauma affects body, mind, nervous system, emotions, sense of self, and relationships. Your symptoms are adaptive responses that helped you survive. Instead of fighting them, we get curious about what they’re protecting.

Over time, clients often notice they feel calmer in relationships, handle difficult emotions with more steadiness, and find that memories that once felt overwhelming have simply lost their charge. Healing here means getting your power back and learning to trust yourself again.

If you’d like to understand more about how this model works and whether it might be the right fit for you, read: Trauma Counselling: How I Practice and What You Can Expect.

What becomes possible with trauma counselling online

Discover who you truly are

If you’ve spent years focused on getting by, it can be hard to know what you actually like, want, or need. As you heal, your own needs, values, and boundaries begin to surface. Not as concepts you practise, but as something you can feel.

Emotional wisdom that grows

You swing between feeling everything and feeling nothing. Over time, overwhelming emotions become more manageable. You respond to life’s challenges with more clarity, less reactivity, and a deeper trust in your own inner wisdom.

Relationships that feel different

Not because other people change, but because you do. You can be more present, set boundaries that hold, and build trust without losing yourself in the process.

Memories that lose their charge

Experiences that keep showing up, even after years of trying to move on, begin to integrate. They become part of your history: something you can hold, rather than something that holds you.

Woman sitting on her sofa with a cup of coffee and a laptop during an online trauma counselling calgary session.

It’s your time to heal: Let’s begin

If this resonates, your next step is simple: a free consultation to see whether this approach feels right for you. We’ll map out gentle first steps together. No need to dive straight into the most painful memories. Book through Jane App or message me at nat@brighthorizontherapies.com.

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Your trauma counselling online questions answered

I offer trauma counselling online to clients in Alberta and Western Canada.

If you live elsewhere, online coaching may be an option: complex trauma coaching for layered or relational trauma, or childhood trauma coaching for adults if you want to focus on the lasting effects of childhood experiences. You can explore the coaching pages to see which feels like a closer fit.

Read more: Complex trauma coaching | Childhood trauma coaching for adults

I currently have limited space for in-person sessions in Calgary on Tuesdays and Saturdays. If you’d prefer to meet in person, please reach out to check availability.

That uncertainty makes sense — and you don’t have to figure it out before reaching out. The free consultation is precisely the space to explore whether this approach fits what you’re carrying and where you are right now. If you’d like to think it through first, this podcast episode may help: How to find a good trauma counsellor.

No. A diagnosis is not a requirement. I respect how you identify your own experience. Trauma exists on a spectrum, and many people carry its effects without ever fitting neatly into a diagnostic category.

I don’t diagnose. I work with your symptoms and experiences as they are, and we figure out together what your healing actually requires. If you’re wondering whether your specific experience is something I work with, these may help: Healing childhood sexual abuse and how to heal complex trauma (Podcast)

There is no reliable answer to this question — and I am cautious about anyone who offers one.

Recovery depends on the nature and complexity of your trauma, your nervous system’s current capacity, and many other factors that are unique to you.

Single-incident trauma often responds more quickly than complex or developmental trauma. What I can say is that healing is not just about time spent in sessions — the awareness and practices you develop outside of sessions matter too.

We work collaboratively, set realistic goals for each phase, and evaluate progress together. Recovery takes courage. It also takes patience — with the process, and with yourself. Read more: Goals for trauma recovery.

Session pricing varies depending on your financial situation. I offer income-based variable pricing from $82.50 to $110 CAD per 55-minute session. This reflects what is fair for your circumstances rather than a single standard rate.

To give you an idea of monthly budget: I usually meet with clients biweekly, so two sessions per month is a fair starting point. Some clients prefer weekly sessions at the beginning, which typically shifts as things settle.

Read more: Pricing I Affordable complex trauma counselling

If therapy hasn’t helped before, there are usually a few reasons worth exploring. Talk therapy alone is often not sufficient for trauma — particularly complex or childhood trauma. Trauma lives in the nervous system and the body, and cannot be fully resolved through words and insight alone. The approach matters. So does the therapist — their training, their own relationship with power, and whether they are genuinely trauma-focused rather than simply trauma-informed.

I also want to name something that rarely gets said: some of my clients have been harmed by previous therapists. That harm is real, and it makes reaching out again an act of considerable courage. If that is your experience, I want you to know that I don’t expect you to trust me. That trust — if it develops — gets built slowly, in the relationship itself, and it is something we can work through together explicitly.

If you are looking for a cognitive behavioural approach, I am probably not your person. CBT has its place, but it is not sufficient to heal relational or complex trauma. Read more: CBT for adults with childhood trauma.

If you’re curious whether a different approach might reach what previous therapy couldn’t, the free consultation is a good place to start.

Read more: Subtle warning signs of therapy harm

If you’re curious to learn more about trauma recovery at your own pace, you’re welcome to explore my Trauma Recovery FAQs.