Trauma-informed Coaching

Person sitting alone by the sea on rocks, illustrating the journey of healing and self-discovery in trauma-informed coaching.

Move from surviving to thriving

If you’ve experienced trauma, abuse, or adverse childhood experiences, you know that the past doesn’t just stay in the past. It lives in your body, your reactions, your relationships, and the voice in your head that tells you you’re not enough. You might find yourself stuck in patterns you can’t explain, held back by fears that feel disproportionate, or struggling with a sense that something is fundamentally wrong with you.

You’re not broken. You’re a person who adapted brilliantly to survive difficult circumstances, and now those adaptations might be getting in the way of the life you want to create. Trauma-informed coaching offers a path forward that honors your full humanity, respects your nervous system, and meets you exactly where you are—without forcing you to relive the past or pathologizing your experiences.

Whether you’re navigating a life transition, healing your relationship with boundaries, transforming your relationships, or simply wanting to feel more alive and present in your life, trauma-informed coaching helps you move forward with compassion, clarity, and sustainable change. This work is grounded in the Integrative Trauma Recovery Model™, which combines evidence-based trauma healing approaches with empowering, forward-focused coaching.

Is this you?

You feel stuck despite trying everything

You’ve read the books, listened to the podcasts, maybe even tried therapy before. You understand your patterns intellectually, but nothing seems to shift. You still react in ways you don’t want to, feel overwhelmed by emotions you can’t control, or find yourself repeating the same relationship dynamics despite your best intentions.

Traditional coaching hasn’t worked

You’ve tried “just set goals” or “think positive” approaches, and they’ve left you feeling worse—like you’re failing at something that seems so easy for everyone else. When coaches tell you to “just do it” without acknowledging what’s actually in the way, it feels dismissive and invalidating.

You know your past affects your present

You can see how your childhood, past relationships, or traumatic experiences still influence how you feel, react, and relate to others. You might feel anxious, shut down, or overwhelmed without fully understanding why. Your body responds before your mind can catch up.

You want to grow without being retraumatized

You’re ready for change, but you need an approach that feels safe, paced, and respectful of your nervous system. You don’t want to be pushed beyond what you can handle or forced to relive painful memories without adequate support.

You’re navigating multiple challenges

Perhaps you’re dealing with boundary struggles, relationship patterns you want to change, chronic anxiety or depression, difficulty trusting yourself or others, perfectionism that never feels good enough, or a deep sense that you don’t belong. These challenges feel interconnected, and you need an approach that addresses the roots, not just the symptoms.

You want more than just coping—you want transformation

You’re not just looking to manage symptoms or get through the day. You want to actually thrive, feel genuinely connected to yourself and others, pursue meaningful goals with confidence, and create a life that feels aligned with who you really are.

If any of this resonates, trauma-informed coaching might be exactly what you need.

What you can gain from trauma-informed coaching

deeper self-awareness and inner connection

You’ll learn to tune into your body, emotions, and thoughts in a way that creates genuine self-understanding. This isn’t just intellectual insight—it’s embodied knowing that helps you make choices aligned with your authentic self rather than old survival patterns

emotional freedom and regulation

You’ll develop the capacity to feel your emotions without being overwhelmed by them, manage anxiety and distress without numbing or avoiding, and access more joy, peace, and presence in your daily life.

empowerment and confidence

You’ll build genuine confidence rooted in self-trust rather than external validation. You’ll feel more equipped to handle life’s challenges and more capable of pursuing what matters to you.

healthier, more authentic relationships

You’ll learn to recognize emotional safety in relationships, set boundaries without guilt, communicate your needs effectively, and create connections based on mutual respect rather than fear or obligation.

sustainable personal growth

This work creates lasting transformation rather than temporary fixes. You’ll develop skills and awareness that continue serving you long after our work together ends, and you’ll break cycles that may have persisted for generations.

alignment with your values and purpose

You’ll gain clarity about what truly matters to you and build the capacity to create a life that reflects your values, not just your fears or others’ expectations.

I’m here to support you at your own pace and help you reconnect with your inner strength. Sessions are collaborative, evidence-based, and always rooted in safety, choice, and respect for your unique journey.

If this resonates, I invite you to a gifted session to explore how I can support your journey.

Smiling man having an online trauma-informed coaching session at home with his laptop.
Natalie Jovanic, a counsellor and coach, offering trauma-informed counselling Calgary, online and in-person sessions available.

Meet Natalie

Hi, I’m Natalie Jovanic, a Trauma Coach and Master Therapeutic Counselling with over 14 years of experience supporting people healing from adversity, trauma, complex trauma and loss. My approach integrates best practices for healing, including EMDR, IFS-informed parts work, and somatic approaches, always adapted to your unique needs.

I believe healing should be safe, inclusive, and rooted in social justice, so I integrate anti-oppressive practices into my work. I also offer income-based pricing to make trauma-informed counselling in Calgary more accessible.

Specialized trauma-informed coaching programs

The Integrative Trauma Recovery Model™ supports adults healing from childhood trauma, relational trauma, and complex trauma. Depending on your specific needs and goals, I offer specialized coaching programs that focus on particular areas of this work:

Childhood trauma coaching for adults


For adults healing from adverse childhood experiences, emotional neglect, abuse, or dysfunctional family dynamics. This comprehensive program addresses the deep roots of childhood trauma and helps you reclaim your authentic self.

Healthy boundaries coaching


For people who struggle with saying no, over-giving, chronic guilt, or maintaining limits in relationships. This program helps you heal your relationship with boundaries at the nervous system level.

Coaching for people with relational trauma or complex trauma

If you’re healing from toxic relationships, betrayal trauma, or dealing with layered, long-term trauma from multiple sources, the Integrative Trauma Recovery Model™ provides comprehensive support for this work. While I don’t yet have dedicated program pages for these areas, this is core work I offer through individualized coaching.

It’s your time to heal: Let’s begin

If this approach to trauma-informed coaching resonates with you, I’d be honoured to get to know you. I offer a free gifted session so you can explore your options in a safe, supportive space. You can book through my secure online booking system or message me at nat@brighthorizontherapies.com—whatever works better for you.

Trauma-informed coaching FAQs

Trauma-informed coaching recognizes that past traumatic experiences shape how you think, feel, react, and relate in the present. Rather than just focusing on goals and action steps, this approach acknowledges your nervous system, works with your body as well as your mind, creates safety and pacing that honors your capacity, addresses the underlying patterns and beliefs formed through trauma, and uses evidence-based techniques specifically designed for trauma healing. It’s not therapy, but it’s also not traditional coaching that ignores how the past lives in the present.

My approach to trauma-informed coaching integrates therapeutic techniques within a forward-focused, empowerment-centered coaching framework. While therapy often focuses on diagnosing, treating symptoms, and processing past experiences, coaching emphasizes growth, goal achievement, and building the future you want. My background in counselling and specialized trauma training allows me to offer deep healing work within a non-pathologizing approach that honours you as whole, capable, and reaching toward something more—not broken and needing to be fixed.

Absolutely not. Trauma isn’t just major events—it’s any experience that overwhelmed your capacity to cope and left lasting impacts on how you function. This includes emotional neglect, chronic invalidation, witnessing family dysfunction, experiencing discrimination or marginalization, or growing up in environments where you didn’t feel safe or seen. If you recognize yourself in the “Is This You?” section, this work can help regardless of whether your experiences would be labeled as “trauma” by clinical standards.

That’s completely okay. Trauma-informed coaching doesn’t require you to retell or relive traumatic experiences. We work in the present, focusing on your current patterns, relationships, and goals. If past experiences come up naturally, we hold them gently and work with them in ways that feel safe and manageable for your nervous system. You’re always in control of what we explore and at what pace.

Yes! Many clients find that therapy and coaching complement each other beautifully. Therapy often focuses on processing past trauma and managing symptoms, while coaching is more present and future-focused, helping you build skills and take action. With your consent, I’m happy to coordinate with your therapist to ensure we’re supporting you in aligned ways.

The timeline varies based on your goals, the depth of patterns you’re addressing, and your unique healing process. Some people notice significant shifts within a few months, while deeper transformation may take six months to a year or longer. This isn’t a quick fix—it’s about creating sustainable, lasting change. We work at a pace that honours your nervous system and ensures transformation that actually lasts.